26 Things I’ve learned in 26 years

Today is my 26th birthday, and so I’ve compiled a list of 26 things I’ve learned in my 26 years of existence on this earth. I wouldn’t exactly call these lessons wisdom, some may be a little silly, but some are also things I still remind myself of today.

Quick shoutout to my lovely friend Beth who inspired me to do this post. You can find hers here!

1. Focus on the now and stop panicking about the future. It’s okay that you don’t have your life planned out. You will grow as a person and you’ll discover what you want to do.
2. Don’t waste your time on toxic friendships.
3. Embrace your style, everyone’s different. As long as you’re comfortable with your style, that’s what matters.
4. Don’t allow others to make you feel insignificant or treat you like an idiot. You’re not one, and they’re not worth your time.
5. See that idea you just had? Write it down, or you’ll forget it in ten minutes. You know you will.
6. Your opinion matters. Shocking, I know!
7. Everything happens for a reason.
8. Do something crazy for yourself once and a while, you deserve it.
9. Treat others the way you want to be treated.
10. Don’t feel guilty for having a self care day. You don’t always have to be doing something productive.
11. You and your friends don’t always have to agree on things, it’s perfectly normal. Embrace your own opinions.
12. Breakfast is important, make time for it or you’ll regret it later.
13. Always keep some of your savings aside for emergencies.
14. It’s okay to say no. You don’t have to please everyone.
15. You absolutely have the ability to fulfil your dreams. Just get off your ass and work to the best of your ability.
16. Surround yourself with people who truly care about you, value your friendship and help you grow into the person you’re proud to be.
17. Enjoy the little things, no matter how little.
18. Be patient, things don’t happen overnight.
19. Your opinions will grow and change as you do, and that’s okay.
20. If in doubt, don’t! Trust your gut.
21. Practice really does make perfect (or close to it), but keep going because there’s always room for improving your skills.
22. If you’re not going to use/read it, don’t buy it. Save your money.
23. Be more spontaneous, make as many memories as you can in the process.
24. Travel whenever you get the opportunity, the world is literally at your feet.
25. Don’t be overly critical or embarrassed to show your work. Show it to others, it will help you improve!
26. It’s okay to put your happiness first, you’re taking care of yourself.

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